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The Activision/Blizzard debacle

I don’t normally do gaming pieces on this blog, but full disclosure I have been gaming since the very early 1980’s. It is a hobby, I enjoy it and It’s something that over the decades has grown to an immense industry on par with Hollywood. Over the last few years there has been several revelations as to the culture at some of the biggest gaming companies in the world. The latest one to blow up is Activision/Blizzard, they make one of the most popular games in the world World of Warcraft.

Here is an article that does a decent job of summarizing what is going on there.

So what we have here is a rampant corporate culture of sexism, harassment, assault and generally horrible behavior. It has gotten to the point where the State of California is suing this company, it’s that bad. Lost in this are the victims of what appears to be a decade + of horrible behavior. So as a gamer I see this and I am saddened. I believe that consenting adults can do whatever they want, the first time there is a “No” or any expression of discomfort it has to end there. Touching, slapping or grabbing is an assault unless consented too. On and on.

So as a gamer I see this and I have few tools at my disposal to affect a better outcome for the victims and to punish those who have committed these horrible offenses. I can use my platform here, which I am and I can use my consumption. In the end, these companies rely on people like me to consume their product. Let me be clear, some of the games Activison and Blizzard make are spectacular. Loads of fun and highly entertaining.

Your consumption is one of the most powerful tools you have to affect change.

I won’t be playing them anymore. I have uninstalled them from my gaming PC and cancelled my subscription I had to play one. I know that seems a small trifle given the scope of the crimes here and the size of the company involved. However, I am one of thousands, if not TENS of thousands of people who are doing the very same thing. You want to hold companies accountable for crap like this? Hit them in the wallet. This company will never get a dime from me again, even if they completely reform etc. the fact that they covered it up for years and allowed it to go on is horrible, I will never reward that.

I don’t expect perfection; god knows I’m not perfect. When a woman says no, it ends there. When a woman tells you, you make her uncomfortable, stop. It’s okay to ask, but that’s it. Once the relationship boundary is set you have to respect it and creating the illusion of women being ambiguous is ridiculous. You know if a woman is uncomfortable, you shouldn’t be dropping comments about her breasts, or her ass unless you are actually in a relationship. Of course there are instances where things are embellished, people lie and innocent men get harmed. I get that, but what we have here is a lengthy dossier of abuse over years, its criminal on so many levels that the people in charge, senior management should be prosecuted.

The Activision/Blizzard story is far worse than the vanilla examples I have given. If you are a gamer and you are reading this, send them a clear message that you are unhappy and this is unacceptable, hit them in the wallet.

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Atari 2600

One of the tools I use to deal with Anxiety: Gaming

Yes I am a gamer. As a proud card carrying member of Generation X I can tell you that in 1982 I got an Atari 2600. I actually got a “sears” version, back then Atari sold directly to Sears (who was still a major, if not the biggest retailer in the country in the 80’s) my FAVORITE uncle got it for me, LOL. I’ve been hooked ever since. Back then you had to hook it up to the TV, graphics were horrible by today’s standard but god was it fun.

I’ve gone through many iterations of games and generations of gaming consoles in the last 38 years. I’ve been gaming probably longer than many of you have been alive LOL. I’ve recently started playing some of my older games again. This my hobby of course, I work full time, I have a family I have a normal life. Hobbies allow you to disengage from reality, more over it allows you to escape from things you don’t necessarily enjoy doing.

As an example do you hate your job? Are you having a stressful situation with your family? Hobbies are a refuge, and allow you something you enjoy that’s exclusive to you. Sure you can share your hobby with other people but having something that is YOURS is very important for your mental health. It’s almost like a safe space, it’s a place you go that you exist as you like. At least that’s how it is in video games, and I truly appreciate that aspect of it.

Hobbit Hole
So does this mean I can be a Hobbit?

Your hobby can be anything, cars, golf, pets, writing, and video games. In the end though it’s a great way to have something that is just for you, that you can be selfish about and not share if you don’t want to. It’s indulgent and people in your life may find it threatening to their relationship with you that you have something personal that doesn’t include them. It’s important to make time for everyone in your life and to make sure they don’t feel ignored.

However it’s just as important to make sure that you make time for your hobbies. This will make you a better overall person and far more relaxed and happy. Remember to not over indulge and to be clear with the people in your life what your hobby is and what you are doing. As an example, I game wed evenings 8-10 and Friday night 9PM – to whenever I go to bed. My wife and kids know I do this, and it doesn’t create an issue for us. I game with my son from time to time actually, LOL.

The point is, find something you like for you. Be selfish, but don’t let it consume you.

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Play games for anxiety?

Full discloser: I am a gamer. I have been since I got an Atari in 1983 I haven’t looked back since. The growth in gaming, for me is staggering. “Back in the day” gaming wasn’t mainstream at all. IPhone didn’t exist, only a few people had computers in their house. Internet? It wasn’t accessible to civilians at that point. Now? Gaming is a multibillion dollar industry. People who dismiss it and the people who enjoy the hobby are really in the dark ages. Its here and its part of our global culture now. I game with people all over the world, Germany, Japan, New Zealand you name it.

Now for those of us with anxiety, some games can induce increased anxiety. Not everyone is equipped to deal with the realities of gaming. There are trolls, there are competitive people, and some games are not simple. Remember that “gaming” doesn’t just mean online games AKA what you see in twitch clips. It can mean chess, poker etc.

I found a pretty interesting article here

From the article: “During quarantine, we have to not only keep ourselves sharp mentally and physically, but also find healthy ways to interpret the world we’re facing. Playing games helps people break away from their work while still engaging in social activities with others. Games also help people experience escapism. Whether it’s a video game, board game or puzzle, we can take a break from the world and focus on the task in front of us. Playing games provide a unique personal experience and mental break.”

Escapism is a wonderful concept and for me it’s been effective for years. I play a game called “Lord of the Rings online” I have been playing it for a decade. It’s a blast. Now for me, I am a Tolkien fan as you can see from this post I refer to him a lot. I log in assume the role of a character and become someone else for an hour.

Is it healthy? I don’t know, I do know that for me it breaks the real world cycle. I am in a fantasy setting, I know it’s all made up that the impossible is possible. I also know the real world isn’t present, I can shut it off if only for little while. Maybe video games aren’t your thing, that’s cool. Perhaps you are of a certain age like me where you remember your parents having a card night

It’s the same concept really. The article is pretty well written and in the end I think the solution for anxiety is multi-pronged. Maybe gaming is one of the tools you can use to ease your personal anxiety? I know it works for me.

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Atari 2600

Hobbies

I am a gamer. As a proud card carrying member of Generation X I can tell you that in 1982 I got an Atari 2600. I actually got a “sears” version, back then Atari sold directly to Sears (who was still a major, if not thee biggest retailer in the country) my FAVORITE uncle got it for me, LOL. I’ve been hooked ever since. Back then you had to hook it up to the TV, graphics were horrible by todays standard but god was it fun.

I’ve gone through many iterations of games and generations of gaming consoles in the last 37 years. I’ve been gaming probably longer than many of you have been alive LOL. I’ve recently started playing some of my older games again. This my hobby of course, I work full time, I have a family I have a normal life. Hobbies allow you to disengage from reality, more over it allows you to escape from things you don’t necessarily enjoy doing.

As an example do you hate your job? Are you having a stressful situation with your family? Hobbies are a refuge, and allow you something you enjoy that’s exclusive to you. Sure you can share your hobby with other people but having something that is YOURS is very important for your mental health. It’s almost like a safe space, it’s a place you go that you exist as you like. At least that’s how it is in video games, and I truly appreciate that aspect of it.

Your hobby can be anything, cars, golf, pets, writing, video games. In the end though it’s a great way to have something that is just for you, that you can be selfish about and not share if you don’t want to. Its indulgent and people in your life may find it threatening to their relationship with you that you have something personal that doesn’t include them. It’s important to make time for everyone in your life and to make sure they don’t feel ignored.

However it’s just as important to make sure that you make time for your hobbies. This will make you a better overall person and far more relaxed and happy. Remember to not over indulge and to be clear with the people in your life what your hobby is and what you are doing. As an example, I game wed evenings 8-10 and Friday night 9PM – to whenever I go to bed. My wife and kids know I do this, and it doesn’t create an issue for us. I game with my son from time to time actually, LOL.

The point is, find something you like for you. Be selfish, but don’t let it consume you.